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A Space for Insight and Reflection
Writing that explores healing, practice, and the deeper movements of transformation.



The Love in the Air is Thicker than the Smoke
How can we let the transformative quality of fire move through us in a good way? It is tempting to focus on the dramatic evidence of loss al
Sep 14, 20206 min read


Our World Schooling Trip to Bali
Nymue and I decided to go on a spontaneous world schooling trip to Bali for the month of May. World schooling is the idea that being in the world is an awesome way to learn. Kids, just like adults, learn from traveling, speaking new languages, visiting new places, and generally jumping outside of the box of a classroom or otherwise specially simulated environment dedicated to the concept of learning. This was our second trip to Bali together. Here are some highlights. Volc
Jul 31, 20183 min read


We changed our last name to Ayla, here's why ...
Naming our own matrilineal lineage is an initiation of our sovereignty and an invocation of our milk line. My daughter, Nymue, and I did not have the same last name for the first 5 years of her life. We both had the last names of our father, who had the last name of his father's father's father's father... etc. You get the idea. Nymue and I have been looking for a name we can share for a long time. It has been a big prayer of mine to shed an old skin that got too tight and
Jun 4, 20183 min read


Ocean Unschooling
Our recent unschooling adventures have been focused on the medicinal mojo of the ocean, plants and wildlife. We went to the Farallon...
Mar 16, 20182 min read


Unschooling Nymue
I am experimenting with an unschooling path for Nymue. Unschooling is based on a philosophy that purports that when we trust in our children's innate curiosity for life, they will flourish in a constant state of learning. The path offers children the space to explore the world around them for themselves in accordance with the form and pace that feel appropriate to them. In his book, Learning All the Time, John Holt (who coined the term "unschooling") writes: Children, withou
Feb 21, 20183 min read

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